manipulated scene so that she understood she was "lying"

could not find her bell, most important item besides monitor and OJ.
she used to throw, in a frenzy, what she found not to her liking in a room if the important item was not there.... in fact throwing at the child
I have done that on occasion, but taken what was at my disposal
i asked if i should do so, so that she knew where her bell was.

i use the same behviours she did and i feel like the dirtiest peice of trash for it.